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She says jump, he asks how high?

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Submitted by meneran on Tue, 12/21/2010 - 10:05am

Ok, I'm a bit confused on how to proceed with this.

She doesn't call, she texts. Not often. Usually its about setting the schedule of dropoff, and to try and find the way to dump the kid on us during his holidays.

Every time she texts, its 'please call' only. He immediately calls as soon as he sees the message.

Its starting to bother me that whenever she decides she wants to talk to him, he needs to drop everything and call her to see what she wants. What the hell is with that?

Oh, today was no exception.

The way HIS SON was as a baby.

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Submitted by meneran on Mon, 12/20/2010 - 3:16am

I dont have a child of my own. My bf does.
Yesterday was some commercial about babyformula on tv. He started conversation about how he has seen some program on tv and how those babyformulas are almost like breastmilk. He then proceeded to say how his son was using -such and such- brand. How he liked -such and such- baby can food (not sure how they are called, you know those you buy with veggies, fruits, meat etc).
He knows i want a child of my own.

Why would it bother me what they were doing to their child? Why would it bother me what their child liked?

I am not sure I can handle it any longer..

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Submitted by meneran on Mon, 12/13/2010 - 3:40am

Hi everyone,

As my blog title says, i am not sure i can handle this situation any longer.

At first, we had the boy(9) every weekend. It was very hard to stay sane. We both work monday to friday and weekend is our only time off. We had him from friday afternoon until sunday afternoon. That meant no private time for two of us at all. The boy was hard to handle. He literally cannot do anything by himself, he needs constant attention etc.. im sure many of you lived trough the same ordeal.

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