Well I haven't been on ST in a while mostly because I've been nesting and getting ready for baby Everything has been going great the baby has flipped and only 3 weeks until my due date. My house looks immaculate because DH has been in nesting mode also. DH has been wonderful lately we hit a rough spot for a while but we talked a lot yelled some and made it through now our relationship is better than ever. Overall the past few weeks have been awesome until today. First let me mention that we finally got SS5 to the psychologists his appt was monday and he believes that SS has adhd and wants to have several tests done and therapy for his behavior/absent mother issues so his next appt is in May...yes May that is the earliest they could get him in again I'm not sure how much good 1 counseling session every 2 months will help but anyway today SS5's GP's want to get him for the weekend! yes! they haven't gotten him since Christmas and they are the only family on BM's side that care. I tell SS to pick out clothes bring them into the living room so I can make sure he packs the things he needs this task proves to be too much for him so I waddle to his bedroom to assist and immediately I am slapped in the face with the smell of hot piss! it was so horrible it smelled like a public men's room without air conditioning. Throughout my pregnancy I have had a super human sense of smell and for the last 2 0r 3 months I have been telling DH SS5's room smells like pee he went through the whole room and couldn't find it and just thought I was crazy. I had assumed he has been having accidents and just leaving pee clothes in his room...boy was I wrong!!!He has been just whipping it out and pissing on the floor!!! I feel the need to mention that DH and I bought our house a year ago and completely remodeled the kids rooms his room has brand new plywood floors with brand new carpet brand new sheetrock and new paint complete with a new bed.