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Youngest SS needs help

My husband and I have been together for 4 years. The only times we fight is over his 2 teenage sons. We went from having them 100% of the time, down to 50% of the time.

The oldest is pretty well behaved. He has behavioral problems in school, which we are trying to deal with (BioMom works against us on this as well). But at home, he keeps his room clean and takes pretty good care of our farm animals when he is here.

Childless Stepmom

I am a childless stepmom to 2 teenage boys. SS#1 is 14 and SS#2 is 13. I recently suffered my third miscarriage in 3 years. We never told the boys I was pregnant the last 2 times. My first time I found out I was pregnant, my husband and i were so excited! We told the boys when I was 8 weeks along. The next morning, BioMom showed up at our house, yelling and screaming about what a mistake we had made. She said I was only with my husband for his money. Um...what money? We struggle like most families. She made a huge scene in our driveway, in front of both of their children.

Intro to my life

I married the man of my dreams...but he had 2 kids. I was single, with no children. Everything was great in the beginning. Both boys and I quickly formed bonds and everyone got along extremely well. Until bioMom came back. She was gone, for years she had not seen the boys. By the time I met them, they were 9 and 10 years old. They had bubbly personalities,were fun to be around, mature for their ages, could hold a conversation about politics (and they knew what they were talking about) and so loveable.

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