My bf is separated and in the process of finalizing his divorce.   Recently told me that his teens said they would never want a step parent .  I feel like this comment is making an impact with us eventually moving forward together.    His kids get whatever they want, are never told no and basically run the show.   Is my bf wrong for ending our relationship or not having it move forward until his kids are done with school? Done with college? Married and habe their own !Ives?