Hello all! This is my first post, so here it goes. I have been with my fiancé for 7 years. He has two beautiful children ages 18 and 12. Three years ago, we packed up and moved to his kids home state so he gets to spend more time with them especially since he travels an awful lot for work. 
In the last three years I've been trying so hard to build a real relationship with my step kids. It has been going well with my step son the 12 year old. However, with my step daughter, I feel ignored, tolerated, used only when needed and like a wall is put up by her.