Last night I was talking to DH and asked if he was sure he wanted to have a baby. We just started trying and I was curious. He asked if I was sure and I of course said yes. He then said "I hope it's a little girl just like you." Let me back up. In the past before we decided for sure to try, he would say it did not matter what it was just as long as I was happy. So I told him I did not think it mattered to him since he already has a boy and a girl. He got a little mad with me and asked why I always have to say stuff like that.

DH and I were leaving a bit ago to run to the store. His kids are there for their EOW visit. He gets in the car and says "I don't know how it came to this." Let me back up for a moment. His kids were at the dining table eating. We had already eaten bc I asked that it just be he and I. Anyway, I walked through to go to the garage and did not say anything to them and they did not say anything either. So I asked him what he meant. He said me not even wanting to be in the same room as his kids. I told him this is just how it is for now.

My DH's ex continues to buy his family gifts for the holidays and she sends them with the kids to our house to give them to the family while we are having our Christmas. They always try and sneak around and hide it but I know they do it every year. Last year I tried to put the gifts from BM under the tree and hand them out during gift time but DH would not let me. I know, that was a real bitch moment for me but this really pisses me off. DH has never been honest with his family about the reason they divorced. He finally told his brother 2 years ago what really happenend.