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lucija's picture

Submitted by lucija on Wed, 08/07/2013 - 11:12am

i told SDs about the room,and they said they will let me know which room they are giving up later this evening,when they all come home. they seem to take it pretty well.

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DarkStar's picture

Submitted by DarkStar on Wed, 08/07/2013 - 11:52am

YAY! Applause!

I've been reading your story with great interest, my first post on the subject...sometimes when I think the worst of a situation, it turns out to be not so bad!

Of course, this hasn't played out to its entirety, until baby is completely moved in and everything is done, I would still be watching very carefully. But I have high hopes! If this goes well, I think this could be the first step at gaining some ground in your household.

STAY strong, STICK to your guns, SHOW your family what important to you and that you won't back down and hopefully you can get what you want.

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Submitted by Merry on Wed, 08/07/2013 - 12:02pm

I still can't believe that the CHILDREN get to decide who gets what room(s) in the house. I'm sorry for you that they are in charge and have more power than you do.

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Submitted by misSTEP on Wed, 08/07/2013 - 12:23pm

Now think of all the other things that you thought would never work and realize that sometimes it isn't as bad as your mind makes it out to be.

ltman's picture

Submitted by ltman on Wed, 08/07/2013 - 12:59pm

Got a question scratching around in my brain, are you and your husband from the same country?

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Wed, 08/07/2013 - 1:31pm

Good but you are going to have to stand up fir you and the baby b/c obviously your dh is not going too. You have to stand up to him and those kids.

You just make it clear to your dh that you will not live like that and that you will stand up for your baby. He is standing up for his other kids so you are all that baby has.