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OMG - I nearly just agreed to having the skids for 5 days on my own....

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Heart is still racing.

OH just texted me and said BM needs him to take the kids from the 13th for an extra few days, we have them that weekend anyway.

I was all mixed up and thought he meant THIS weekend for next week, so I told him my plans with DD's but said they could tag along for most things, and that he was taking the Weds off as we had things that they can't come for. He texted back Thanks Honey, I love you.

Then I looked at the calendar.

Half an hour, I feel sick...

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Ok, so I really shouldn't bitch, I got a reprieve twice this week.

SD13 was at camp all week so only ss10 on Wednesday, then she wanted to spend some time with BM Friday night, and OH had volunteered to help out at SS's school today which meant no skids last night.

So really, I've had two extra nights of peace and no stress, and I have no right to complain now.

OH has just texted me that he has picked them up and they are on their way home. Sad

What do I do?

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I asked SD if she had any washing - she said it's on her bed - she ran out of time and could I grab it - she was on her way out the door with OH so I just said ok.

Just went up to grab it.

There is her diary, conveniently open at the page last month where ss faux punched dd in the face and OH and I had a fight and I left.

Her entry says - with big hearts and happy face borders - "dad had a big fight with the bitch and she packed up and left - yay yay - best day EVER!!!!!"

This was SO left out for me to see.

If you want a nasty BM laugh read on....

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Ok, so I had coffee with the mutual friend (see last two blogs for info)

Was very enlightening to say the least. Will blog more on that when I process it.

But she did tell me the funniest BM story.

Apparently BM had lap band surgery a few years back, but after a while had it reversed....

Because she could no longer eat as much as she wanted.

(friend had told her to pull herself together, stop sitting home pigging out and lose some weight - go out and get a life!)

Cracked me up anyways after all the BM shit.

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