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bullshit lies from BM

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SS is spilling the beans about shit going on with his mom.

BM has him convinced that the reason why they don't have any money is because, "the landlord is over-charging them for the light bill."

No, how about she gets a fucking job if they are low on money. Quit fucking blaming everyone else.

Last night with SD

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went surprisingly well. I sucked it up and went on a bike ride up to the city fair. Had a good time.

By this morning though, I was cooked on the whole "kids activities" thing so I begged off.

DH took SD back up to the fair -- which gives me some alone time that I am greatly enjoying with a beer.

SD is on her way...

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Uggg. Sad

I am not looking forward to a weekend filled to the brim with activity designed to entertain her. Please, let's *not* have down time. You know, because when the skids come here it's mini vacation time for them! Forget the fact that I have a ton of homework and other shit to take care of. But noooo... life as we know it comes to a screeching halt so that the skids can be 100% entertained and catered to.

:sick:

Blah...

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Just feeling blah today. I am trying to not dwell on the fact that SD is coming next weekend and that DH is all absorbed into planning all sorts of fun stuff for the two of them to do. All of which costs $$ we don't have.

And him asking me, "Are you going to go with us?"

Uggg.

I suggested that he start looking for volunteer opportunities to do with her. That way, they get to spend time together; she actually gets to experience GIVING to others (rather than being selfish, self-absorbed, and entitled); and it's free.

"What were you surprised about?"

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Another poster started the topic of: "What were you surprised about?" in regards to our home situations.

I am intrigued by my reflection and the response that I came up with. I wanted to bring it over to my own blog, so that I could keep track of it. I feel that I should spend some more time really thinking about this as it very well may put a whole new perspective on things for me.

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My response:

O/T Debbie Downer as a friend...

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I'm on the phone with a friend who has got to be the most negative person I've ever met. She's struggling in life. I get it.

But duuuuuude, there is NOTHING positive happening in your life? I have a hard time believing that. I mean, if NOTHING positive happens, I think that's more of an attitude problem than a reality.

I think she's trying hint around to rent our basement from us. We don't even have a room in our basement. I don't know what she's thinking.

I would probably shoot myself in my head if I had to listen to this negativity every day.

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