Oldest appologised?
Oldest SD appologised (in a way)to Hubby via e-mail yesterday..
(Just like her mother...everything is always everyone elses fault..she is not responsible for her own words & actions and conscequences...someone else is to blame)
Most of the 'appology' centers around how it's her sisters fault ......."because she just didn't really know what she wanted and was telling everyone ELSE (meaning us?)what they wanted to hear"
But what she doesn't realize is that the only one SD is pussy-footing around.."telling what they want to hear"......is HER!!!!! SHE's the only one giving her a hard time!!!!!!!!!!! We've told youngest 'whatever you want to do..is fine by us'....
We even called youngest just to make sure we understood her shower wishes before we responded to oldest...checked to see if plans had changed..and told her again..it didn't matter to us..who put the shower on...if oldest wanted to do it...that's fine. She has been insisting since September that me & step-sister do the fathers side.
Oldest is the one who threw the FIT!!!! But blames youngest for keeping "everyone else" happy??!!
WTF??!!! Some appology!
Hubby is still too pissed to respond to her......
kmn!!!
(kill me now) 
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That's priceless. Not really an apology, just an excuse for her behavior that isn't even really true. That's just like every compliment that BM gives me is really just an insult to BF. "I'm so glad you're around to make sure my son gets fed" "please watch after my son tomorrow"...if all she's trying to do is insult BF why go through the trouble of lacing it with a compliment...why not just say you think he's a dog and isn't capable of taking care of his own son and get it over with...
But look on the bright side, at least she made an effort, probably in the only way she knows how. Maybe to her it really took a lot to do even that and it might mean a lot more to her than it does to you guys. Hopefully this is a step in the right direction
*~So sayeth Nymh~*
All it did was infuriate
All it did was infuriate hubby even more..
He replied and starts out with it's Christmas so I'll try to be nice..and it just went downhill from there.
Most of her e-mail seems to insinuate that "we" or "sister" are the problem....or difficult to get along with. I have no idea where this is coming from..except she is her mothers child and right hand (wo) man...
In response to her question .."do you think everyone will be ble to get along? He responds...
"You should know better that to ask me that. You need to point the finger where it belongs. If my memory serves me correctly at Grandsons christening party there was only one person that had to be spoken about their behavoiur so you need to point your finger in that direction. Your mother is to blame for all this commotion in this family not Lovin-life. If your question is implying that Lovin-life might be a problem my answer is that Lovin-life has never caused any problem within our family and has shown nothing but respect toward you, your husband, and the boys. I think that you, me, and youngest should get together and try to get to the bottom of what is really bothering us. We told youngest that whatever she wants for her wedding day is ok with us so I don't believe she has to say or do anything that will make us happy. If she wants one shower thats ok, if she wants me to wear a sky blue tux with pink poke a dots I will suck it up and wear it. She knows that. The problems with her crying herself to sleep at night doesn't lie with us. It is supposed to be HER DAY so I think we should all do whatever she wants to make that happen." UNquote!!
WOW.......the shit has hit the fan!!
Also....Battling with X yesterday...over divorce agreement. He is being very difficult!!
Much much much much stress...........