I met my husband last March at work, we started dating by May, moved in together by August, found out we were pregnant in October, and got married in March. It was a whirlwind of a year and it was great but everytime I turn around there is one of his exes. Granted it was only a few months before we got together that their relationship ended but; from what he says, he didn't consider her a girlfriend. Just someone to pass the time with sorta thing and not cute either. Now, she has become his sister's best friend and is always at his parents house. She's trying to contact him via facebook too. She goes to family functions "with his sister" and its just getting under my skin. I mean, do you not get the hint..get a life. And then, there is the other one. Their relationship has been over for a couple of years but again contacting him thru facebook. And this girlfriend's mom and my husband's mom are best friends! And her mom wants to take OUR daughter (7 wks old) to Disney and consistently calls my husband like he's her son or something. I think she is hoping we don't work out so my husband and her daughter can get back together. My husband knows it gets to me but I don't think he knows how much. I was on his facebook page the other day putting pics of our daughter and saw an email from the second ex and they went back and forth between them. I brought her up a few days later to see if he would tell me about and he didn't. What do I do about this? I don't like being in a relationship that makes me feel insecure about me and what I have. I just want them all to disappear and leave us to have our little life with our little family. Is that too much to ask? How do I handle this? Am I not suppose to let it get to me? HELP PLEASE!