Hello, I so need some advice if anyone outthere has any ideas please. I am a single mum of two, I work snd I had been out of a relationship for two years following the break down of my marraige. The man that I have begun to date I have known for years he is 15 yrs older than me. He is a bit of a wild card but has such a big heart. He has been through major hard times in his life, as we all have but he unfortunatly lost his first wife at the tender age of 28. He Has a son by her then 6yrs later met and remarried his now x wife and they have a daughter aged 18.