Just about two weeks ago we attended the high school graduation of DH's niece. What a wonderful experience we had. We've only been married two years and in that time I've only met the sister in law once. She didn't come to the wedding cause she couldn't get off work which I sort of understood. So anyway she created this wonderful dvd for her daughter. It contained many photos of her growing up through the years, as each picture passed I would also see my skids... not once did I see the BM. So after the video my SIL says to me, I'm sorry I didn't have more pictures of you in here but we haven't interacted much yet... I said I didn't see any of BM.. she replied I photo shopped her out! LOL I was laughing so hard.. Thank you so much for the welcome to the family. I do have the Best in laws around. Every one of them has made me feel very welcome to this family. The only down side has been the skids... but time will tell if they can stop acting like their pathetic mother and move on with life... I doubt it.