I finally brought up the nerve to ask my mother in law her opinion on the situation and she has told me that I have been opening my arms to him and putting up with way more than she would have and that she agrees that BM and BM;s mom are fake people. (BM had a pic of my fiance and BM on her coffee table and in the bathroom and also calls 10 times a day. She told me she would speak with her son ie:my fiance but really what good is that? I mean I am already so beat down by the situation I cant wait to hear his response because he is such a mommys boy.