Plain and simple, I can't stand my husbands ex. I finally came to terms with SKids. Okay, no, I've only come to terms with SD. I've actually become really close with her. SS on the other hand, no so much. Total mommas boy. Never wants to spend time with his dad and spoiled little brat. He get's all the attention at their home and SD lacks it, so she gets plenty with us. I actually wish SD can come live with us.