Waht do you want from us BM? Is it that you really want SD to have a relationship with DH or do you just want us to pay you as much money as possible so that you can make your new husband SD's "daddy" now? Do you want DH to just sign over custody? Would that make you go away?

I would like for you to leave me and my family alone. I want to grow my family in the direction that I choose to grow it. I don't want to get my head above water and have you constantly swooping in to make MY husband and I shell out for you. I am tired of my kids wearing pants that are too short while ungreatful spoiled little SD is running around like the princess of the free world!

I would like to take the thousands that I have spent on attorneys back in my pocket where it belongs so that I can take my fantastic husband on a wonderful relaxing vacation on which we can try to create the expansion in our family that I would love to have.

The reality I know is so far from my hopes and dreams. I know that you lie and manipulate your parents into paying for your attorney just so that you can sit back and try to say that DH has "financial issues" as to why he REFUSES to agree to your lame desire for SD to come to visit only for a couple of weeks at a time all the while you refuse accept any of the financial burden that this would cause. You are planning all of this and we are not stupid to your antics. I know that you are wanting to make this hard so that we can't afford to fly SD here for the visits. You want us to be financially exhausted by spending money just to defend your unlawful motions that we can't afford to provide any transportation for SD. You refuse to make it easy and meet halfway. So with all your actions it is just so clear that you want DH out of SD's life so why don't you just ask? Why go to all these lengths? Do you not have the courage or are you hoping to cause this all anyway and keep getting the child support?

We are ready BM. We are tired of trying. You are winning!! We hate calling SD and she always has to rush of for something or another. We are hurt by the fact that you have made SD feel as though she would be hurting you by wanting a relationship with me and DH. Why would you want to see your own child hurting? I wouldn't ever put my children in that position no matter how I felt! DH is her father and you are trying your damndest to make that not the case though aren't you??!! I promise you that some day SD will look at you with disgust. I will make sure that she hears and reads all of what you have done!! You live your life by "do as I say, not as I do" and it is WRONG!! You are wrong!!

I hate you BM. I hate the things that you do to us! I hate that you are in my life no matter how far I move away! I hate that I have to ever think of you ever!