I'll start by apologizing I think this is going to be a long blog! I have been with my husband for 8 years, he has a 14 y/o son. I have a 13 y/o daughter, and 11 y/o son, and together we have a 4 y/o son. All the kids live with us, and I am a stay at home mom. They are really decent kids but i have a very difficult time with my ss. He goes out of his way to make sure everyone in the house is as miserable as he must feel. That's the best way to describe it. I've actually caught him smiling several times after he has puposely done something harmful to one of my kids.