My husband has been divorced from his first marriage for over 15 years yet he still lives with the divorced-dad syndrome. I bring in more income than him so it really upsets be when we are in a financial bind yet he's still forking out money to his son 19 and daughter 25. Does anyone have any advise on how he can get over it? He went to therapy after the divorce and then continously but he's priority is not our household. We've been together for 10 years but just married 3. His kids were grown up when I met them so I dont have the step-parent role, but it's still really frustrating.