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How do we make BM and SS2 comfortable with this transition

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Submitted by logan27 on Wed, 08/31/2011 - 4:00pm

My DH's CO awarded him one 24hr overnight EVERY weekend and then Tues & Thurs evenings for 3 hours during the week until SS is 3 and then they go to EOW typical stuff. BM currently lives with her mom and works nights on Sunday, Tues, Thurs so when DH takes SS2 back, he doesn't drop off to BM but to her mom. Seems the BM's mom has become increasingly overbearing and BM is moving out. BM wants SS2 to stay overnight with us when she works on Sun, Tues, Thurs and then alternating Sat overnights....we are soooo excited.

Anyone have a decent relationship with BM?

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Submitted by logan27 on Wed, 08/17/2011 - 9:57am

After reading many posts, I feel I may be fortunate that my DH and BD did not have much of a relationship - it was a 2 month fling - so there is very little "baggage" in that area. BD was very involved from the beginning - going to and paying for doctors visits, (they briefly discussed living together but BM decided against it).