regarding whether i can take sd10 on vacation with me w/o dh. it's our three-week vacation/visitation, and although legally i can take her, i wanted to clear it with the judge since bb is always trying to wreck our plans...i hate to bug them but we are leaving in like 10 days!!! and i still need to call bb to tell her (well, i'm not sure i am going to tell her, should i?) or work out details (give her our #, etc.). actually, what do i have to give her? according to our sharing plan, we had to give her 60 days notice and that's it. so do i have to tell her anything?