I havent posted in a while, but things were seeming to be okay. SS20 has found a job and is actually getting up everyday and going. He really hasnt been in the house much at the same time as me so maybe that is what has helped also....until tonight.

My BF works full time but then has a part time job that he goes to in the evenings for a couple hours. He pretty much sets his own hours for the PT job. Well I have been trying to be really good about having dinner ready to go so that either he or I can just pop something in the oven or warm up in the microwave. So last night when I was making dinner I also made dinner for tonite (which I do quite frequently on Sundays). I put tonites dinner in the refridgerator. I had told BF what we were having for dinner and that it was in the fridge. SS20 was off today and thus home all day. Well when I get home I go to get dinner out of the fridge and guess what.....half of it is gone!!!!! My first reaction was "who the **** ate the chicken for tonites dinner?". BF first answer was probably BS 11 (my BS not BF). So I ask BS 11 even though I know he would have not eaten it because he saw me last night putting it in the fridge and ask what it was, I told him dinner for tommorrow. So lets think about this if I am not home all day and BF is not home all day and BS11 is not home all day who do you think ate it?????? When I put it in the fridge last night there was enough for at least 4 people and when I got it out today there was barely enough for 2. I was mad but mostly upset because I had had a bad day at work and was looking forward to not really having to cook just warm up. Now if BS11 had eaten it all he** would have broken lose with BF I know from experience. But because it was his son who ate it, its no big deal. About the time I realize that there is not enough dinner for all of us SS20 comes into the kitchen where BF and I are and guess what BF does not say a word to SS20. Instead BF tells me that I should have labeled it "dinner" so SS knew not to eat it....bulls**t. I have put meals in the fridge so many times and no one touches it. Plus I distinctly remember mentioning what we were having for dinner tonite at dinner last night which SS20 was at. So he knew I was saving that for tonight. I know I am ranting, but I could just spit fire right now. My blood pressure is sky rocketing and my heart is pounding. BF keeps allowing SS20 to do what ever, when ever and there is never anything said to him. I am so sick of it. So of course now BF and I are not speaking, I warmed up what was left for BF and BS11 (as far as I'm concerned SS20 can fend for himself). WEll BF left and didnt eat he told me to "stick the chicken up my a**", real mature huh?

IT seems that every arguement BF and I have is about SS20 and is disrespectfulness and BF has his times when he acknowledges SS20's rudeness, but he never does anything about it. It talks so nasty to everyone even BF and when I point it out to BF he just brushes it off, like no big deal. I have told BF sooo many times that him letting SS20 talk to him like a "dog" is so unattractive and just makes me want to hurl. BF demands and gets respect from everyone except SS20...why is this? I am just having such a hard time understanding how you let this "kid" talk to him the way he does. Someone else said it earlier, but I think that all the men have lost the spines.