Well...I'm literally cleaning out the closets. 

All the toys I gifted this ungrateful dude's daughter are going (don't worry I'm tying not taking it out on those kids, she said she didn't want most of it) and selling some of it and getting my totes back. 

I'm also trying to minimize the 'junk' I'll need to haul and make some extra cash to pay off credit cards, etc. 

I'm making spreadsheets of accounts that are shared so when time comes I can easily change passwords/pull the plug.

Switching my new business over into accounts that he has no control/access to.

It's honestly a freeing experience to know I'm getting closer to freedom with each step. 

And I appreciate everyone on the forum who has read my long a$$ rants ... my bad but thank you .... I stopped talking to my friends and family members as much about the situation unless they ask and I keep it brief (I don't want to talk about it especially with people who don't understand but just in case he tries anything at least people will know and can speak up for me if it ever came to that). 

For the past 2 weeks, my employer has been overworking me and the stress of this situation is making it worse. So I'm going to just power through at work doing the best I can (and maybe some ethical finessing so I don't get on the employer naughty list lol) while searching for other positions that have less of a demand and pay more.