I have not posted in a while but I have still been watching all you go through your own he**.
The court stuff is done for us, for now. The CS has been ordered to stop, but the money is still coming off his cheques! The stop was done in May, so I guess I have to make some calls and find what is going on. She was really, really mad. She expected not only to keep the CS going to her while princepothead lived with us, she wanted us to pay for his college. That is all done now. I don't doubt she is not done. She will find more ways to suck the bucks from us.
The SS 19, or sirsitsalot, still comes and goes as he pleases, does no cleanup, pays no rent, and continues to just be a couch weight when he is not working. (yes, thank goddess he works!)
Me and hubby are well, pretty much going through the paces. Honestly, not much has changed. I did though freak out, yell and scream at princepothead in front of his daddy, his mommy and his mommy's hubby. I told him I was fu**ing done. I will call the police if he ever smoke drugs in my house again. This was the fifth time!
So, hubby and I fight and have tension all the time, he won't budge on anything, meaning... he won't see my side, he thinks he gets to do whatever he wants and his kids do what ever they want because
he "put up with your fuk*ng kids) ya. That happened.
So no change, still sucks. Still insanely unhappy and trying to ignore them all and have a good and happy life.