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Bm is acting like a wiener!

libbie's picture

Submitted by libbie on Fri, 03/03/2017 - 12:56pm

Since bm left she has only talked to sd when she was sick. Sd has mentioned a few times about bm not answering her texts or her phone but I stayed away from that topic until last night. Last night dh was pissed because bm is ignoring sd and only texted her to say , No, she isn't going to visit them for Spring Break, that she made her choice and we are her family now. She also told her not to expect any presents from her since she has to pay child support now and put her kids in daycare all because sd is selfish and thinks only of herself. Man oh man I didn't think bm would be like this. I knew she was mad but she has cut her daughter out. Dh said sd was acting like she didn't care and that it didn't bother her but he thinks it did. I can't believe is treating her this way.

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ESMOD's picture

Submitted by ESMOD on Fri, 03/03/2017 - 2:39pm

Sounds like my SDs'BM. If YSD does stuff with us her mom guilt trips her how she must love her father more etc.... She will block the girl on social media etc.

The sad thing is they just accept it because they "know how she is". It's sick to do things like that to your children.

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Submitted by Maxwell09 on Fri, 03/03/2017 - 3:43pm

No matter if the girl says it doesn't bother her it does! I think your DH needs to take her to dinner or some place alone where they can talk about it. He needs to make sure she knows BM's adult problems like daycare are not her fault in anyway.

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Submitted by oneoffour on Sat, 03/04/2017 - 9:03am

Put the girl into counselling. She needs objective direction because if she doesn't get that balance when BM turns to her in the future SD will throw ANYONE and EVERYONE under the bus to get her mothers conditional love again.

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Submitted by Livingoutloud on Sat, 03/04/2017 - 9:54am

How did the mother go from very involved parent to completely nonexistent. Seems so crazy to me

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Mon, 03/06/2017 - 2:07am

SD doe snot need a dinner with her Dad, she needs therapy ASAP.

Then I would block BM's cell number on all devices.... no more contact what so ever, maybe there's hope for you and SD