I've been a reader here for a few months, but not a big poster. This is my first blog.

fDH and I got in a pretty big fight a couple weeks ago because I felt like he didn't step in when SD15 was being rude to me. Long story short, this website has helped me learn to stick up for myself when it comes to my boundaries regarding Skids, and I am beginning to disengage.

In the argument, fDH says, "Ever since you joined that step site, you've been indifferent to Skids, and you're not trying anymore!"