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Ugh. I'm annoyed now...

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i was just checking in, and thinking about how WELL things have been going the last 2 weeks... Then Lazy Boye 18 comes in and starts telling his brothers to get cleaned up and dressed because we're ALL going out to dinner. Um, NO. Just me, Lazy Boye, DH and the in-laws. It was a meal for just the 5 of us before Lazy Boye leaves for boot camp this weekend. A dinner I have been planning out for the last 3 weeks, all DH had to do was set the date with his parents. A dinner which I had picked up an extra night of tutoring for to be able to pay the bill...

To ending one chapter, and starting a new one

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The youngest skid graduated yesterday. For the third time in the last four years, everyone involved in raising the skids gathered together to celebrate. This time it was to honor Lazy Boye 18's graduation from High School. And when I say everyone, I mean EVERYONE. All the skids were home from college, our BS, Loghead's parents, my parents, Loghead's sisters, a few cousins, Loca Grande, her husband, her brother and sister and mom, and 2 of Loca Grande's neices.

Winding down...

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Lazy Boye 18 graduates on Saturday. The other steps are coming home for the weekend. The ex is coming over for the Open House for a bit before the ceremony.

He leaves for Marine Boot Camp in early June.

My life as a step-mom with live in skids is almost over. I feel so much pride in what I have accomplished in 15 years, but I am so tired... I'm looking forward to my new chapter to begin...

My light dimmed... but I'm not giving up that easy...

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The last of the step kids graduates one month from today. I can see the end of the tunnel. 3 weeks after that, he leaves for Marine Boot Camp.

The other two have summer jobs and classes and don't plan to be home this summer...

The momen I have waited for for 15 years has finally arrived...

And Loghead thinks we've fallen out of love and maybe we should divorce. I flat out told him not to be an asshole; that I paid my dues and raised his kids and now it was my turn to have his undivided attention.

PITA learns an expenseive lesson- an update for those that know me!

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PITA 19 went back to college in January, and then came home EVERY weekend to see his sweetie who is still in high school. Her birthday was the first week in February. He bought her a $250 pure breed puppy! OMG! We were furious, her parents were furious. How can 2 kids not even working or living in dorms or still at home with her parents take care of a dog!

Princess health update- updates for those who know me!

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Princess will be 22 in a week! Ack! I can't believe it. She had a recent health scare, but fortunately ALL came back just fine! She had some female problems that actually caused some test results to come back whacked out, but after she was given some antiobotics and tests were run again, everything came out all clear.

It was a wake up call for her, and she has decided now to remain celebate until she is married. (There was a way to avoid the scare she had, but she didn't listen to all my motherly advice...)

But all is good now on that front.

"I am at peace now..." some updates for those that know me

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This was the text I received from Loca Grande last week. I had been trying to get ahold of her and her husband for 2 weeks. Lazy Boye had been presented with some amazing opportunities and we were trying to reach her with good news. But they never answered back. I figured they had new phones and hadn't bothered to share the new humbers with us. I didn't want it to come back and bite us in the butt that she didn't know about the upcoming public event that the whole county would be talking about!

NOT again...

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I swear to goodness that at 5:45 this morning, I contemplated leaving my husband. I was getting ready for work and went to let the dog out. I tripped over shoes at the front door, so I turned on the lights. They belonged to my son's new girlfriend!!!!

"Maybe I'm too permissive..."

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Gee, Loghead, ya think! We had another argument Thursday night about how he lets the two boys get away with everything. He had just come home from rescuing PITA 19 and his best friend from the side of road, stranded with no gas in the car, in 3 degree weather.

PITA, once again, didn't tell us he was coming home. When I left work, Loghead called and told me he was going to rescue them, so at least I had an hour notice... When I arrived home, his girlfriend was already at the house, waiting on him.

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