Some of you may remember the argument/s I had with my MIL about her favortisim and just her craziness. Well, she came over to our house a couple of days ago. The kids and I were outside playing with fingerpaints (BS2 &DD5) MIL comes walking aroun the house. I look up and don't say a word and walk into my kitchen. She pokes her head in the sliding glass door and says "I'm only taking DD5 today." I turned to her and said "No. No, you're not. We've already talked about this. Since you can not treat all of the children equally, you're not taking her." She says "Well, I told you that if I was going to take both then you must come along" I responded telling her "You're their grandmother, I should not have to babysit you around your grandchildren. I have already told you this. It's your choice to spend time with them and no one is forcing you." She tried to put words in my mouth by saying "You dont want to take care of your kids?!"

She got bitchy and the discussion turned into an argument and then wet to screaming. She called me selfish and self centered because I'm telling her I want her to treat the children the same. I finally lost it when she said something bad about my BS2 (I can't remember exactly, but it was along th lines of no one would want to be around him...He is an awesome and well behaved lil boy btw) I blew up and told her how I REALLY feel. I told her that for 9 years she has been mean, rude and has just plain out treated SD like crap. I said for 2 years she has been very rude and has always tried to exclude BS2. I told her that she favors DD5 and that if I hadn't told her she had to treat them the same, that it would still only be about DD5. She tried to say that "since DD will be going to Kindergarten this year, that means BS has to tag along? Good luck telling her teacher that!" I said youre crazy and that is a completely different scenerio and you know it.

Eventually, it got to the point where I told her she is not allowed around any of the 3 kids, ever again and that this conversation is over. She kept blabbing her mouth, trying to belittle me infront of my daughter so I finally said "I am done with you. This conversation is over. If you have anything else to talk about, you can call your son..Now get the fuck out of my house before I am forced to make you leave!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :jawdrop:
I can't believe I said that to my intimidating MIL!