DH sent BM an email informing her that he has sent in all the proper paperwork to have SD attend the same school next year(We're out of district)He also told her he has changed all of SD's contact information at the school to only include BM, DH and myself. BM, for some reason, had everyone and their grandma listed except for DH as contacts. Whatever. It's fixed now. BM texts DH in response to the email and tells him that she thinks SD really likes the current school and he should keep her there (Yeah, lady, thats what he's doing) and that if the district gives us any trouble that we should and could lie about our address and tell them that our address is [her friends'] address who live in district. No, BM we're not lying about anything..I know you're used to lying about everything, but for honest people, it feels wrong. BM also tells DH that her plan is to move closer to us since "all the kids are down here" I'm assuming she is referring to SD and her other two kids.

I'm irritated because in BM's mind, she still believes she has control over everything regarding SD. She does not. She has NO decision making authority over SD anymore. It bugs me because the words BM chose to use when talking to DH, made it sound like she is still telling DH what to do. I guess it's petty. I'm also irritated that BM wants to move closer to us. I know she wants unsupervised visits and overnights, but I know this is not going to go well. I know she will start trouble if she is closer to us. I know she will start MAJOR trouble if she ever gets unsupervised visits.