SD11 is a very jealous, manipulative, and miserable child. I thought that it would help if DH got custody. It hasn't. I honestly can't tell if the counseling has helped her at all (Besides teaching her to make excuses for her shitty actions)

Anyway.. SD11 is a very jealous child. She gets angry if DD6 gives DS4 something; Like a drawing from school or something small like that. She won't say anything to me during the drive home from school or even when we get home. She will tell daddy and whine and complain about how DD should have given her the drawing or whatever it was at the time(Even though she really doesn't want it.)DH brushes it off and pretty much tells her to get over it because it's petty. SD got upset that DD6 got a couple small things to take home from a b-day party.. It was a snap bracelet and some candy. Just small stupid things like that pisses her off and will bring her to tears (Only in front of daddy) She also has trouble with friends at school. Because of her crappy attitude, I don't think the kids at school care for her much, thus she doesn't get invited to many b-day parties and she gets very jealous when DD gets invited to her friends parties.

She has told DH that she doesn't like when the "other two" get something when she doesn't.. even though they usually use their allowance to buy things and even on weekends when SD isn't here. DH has tried to explain to her that we try our hardest to keep everything equal when we buy it, but it's not always going to be that way and she must learn to get over it. Especially if our children are using their own allowance.

This past weekend SD was at her grandparents house for the weekend (So she can see her other brother and sister from BM) When she came home, she had bags and bags of new things. New shoes and flip flops, new shirts, jeans, shorts, underwear, tank tops, jewelry etc.. Good, I'm glad her grandparents got her some new clothes, but don't walk in the house rubbing it in everyone's face. Just because you're jealous and resentful, does not mean we are. I think SD11 was expecting DD6 to be jealous of her new stuff, but she wasn't. DD6 was actually happy for her. DD said "oh thats so cool you got new clothes. That was nice of them to get that for you!" SD11 just said.. Yeah you like my new stuff? Did you get new stuff? I got new stuff. I noticed when DD6 didn't get angry or jealous is when SD got irritated. LMAO Even DH made a comment to me about how she gets mad over birthday presents, but will come home with a new wardrobe and flaunt it. DH talked to SD11 later on that night.

It's ridiculous. I'm tired of it.