Well SO got to talk to his daughter last night (not his son because as usual he's not at BM's he's at his uncles according to his sister) When SO got off the phone he asked me if the kids had school tomorrow. I told him mine do and pretty sure his do to as they have the 20th off for presidents day. He tells me that #1 his daughter told him she forgot her folder at school friday because BM picked her up early and said she had an appointment but then didn't take her (the excuse BM gave the school so SO wouldn't be able to pick her up) #2 she stated she didn't have school tomorrow. We both thought BM told her that and was keeping her from school to prevent SO from getting her (we agreed he wouldn't stoop to her level and it was an unnecessary button for SO to push. SO checked his daughters attendance for school (online parent access) and she had an unexcused absence for today. So he text BM asking why she wasn't at school. Her response "the kids said they didn't have school today it's Presidents day" he then asked her "why would you listen to a 6 year old tell you they don't have school and not check the calender or their school calender?"
I mean really if MY 10 year old tells me stuff like that I check the school calender first and he's 10.