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It's been a while....
After the drama of 2019- I wasn't so sure things could get any worse. They did. My God, they did.
In January of 2020 SD came back home. Things were progressing nicely. She seemed to make real progress. I suspect it was actually just an improvement in her manipulating skills. Then November 2020 came around....
My nephew (17) came to live with us following my brother's divorce. I had a very close relationship with my nephew (he lived with me until he was seven) until SD decided to revert back to old ways.
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No ho ho hope for a happy holiday.....
I wish my family was normal. The holidays are coming and I wish we were baking cookies,shopping and able to spend time together. Instead, we are-once again, dealing with the aftermath of a seriously damaged and possibly psychotic SD.
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Ding Dong the Witch is Predictable.....
My husband sat down and called the wicked witch of Ohio the other night. As predicted she agreed to take SD (14), but ONLY if we agree in court to discharge the child support and owed support. We agreed. OF COURSE WE DID! We would have agreed to pay her the $5.72! We are also signing over rights. Which means we cannot be sued anymore for when she puts kids into comas!!!! We have already contacted the attorney . I feel so slimy for saying it, but good grief am I relieved!
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How do I disengage after so many years of being "mom"?
Yesterday, my husband and I had meeting with my SS (16) and SD (14) therapists and providers. We left that meeting feeling attacked. I never really understood the child centric thing until yesterday.
Borderline Personality Disorder with a side of psychosis?
Last night we received a call from the group home my SD(14) lives in. She was caught with a back pack full of prescription meds and THC pods and drug paraphernalia. Turns out she has joined a "gang" and is dating a 19 year old drug dealer. When confronted with this recent trouble she has gotten herself into- she threatened suicide and became violent to the point she had be restrained.
Like playing Bloody Mary, but not quite as fun...
I must have gone and summoned all the spirits of evil by speaking of her on my earlier post, because a private number just calls ( I have blocked every number she has ever contacted me from)- stupidly I answer.....and it is the biological mother of the children I raise.
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Is this the true "upside down"?
I have an exceptionally great sense of humor about life, but I think I have finally decided it isn't funny anymore. Seriously, think nuclear bunker and start preparing. Once this generation hits 25 and start becoming our doctors and lawyers- we are all royally screwed.
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My head spins...
I am the parent of 4 children. I say parent because I have been mom for almost 10 years now. 3 children are technically my step children. I have had a mostly good relationship with the two boys (ages 12 and 15). My step daughter (14) will be an entirely different blog post for another day.
My oldest son has recently been telling horrible lies. Lies of a magnitude I have never known. He does see a therapist, and I really am just not happy with what the therapist says about it.
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