So SD now 6 because WE ( not BM who has full custody of) is off bottles. I gave the whole bottle fairy most folks use at 2 and it worked. Biggest issue is the youngest

Both DH and BM are idiots. When we moved here the moment SD 3 said I want to go home we complied. I tend to bring this up a lot which pisses off DH. Broken record sure but like... The oldest loves it here because she gets 100 percent of the attention with two adults vs one with three kids and so there is competition for either of us when both come over causing physical fights , yelling, crying all the fun stuff. While SD3 is the baby and always has her mum's attention

SD3 is a sweet heart but her mother has her so behind other kids . She only recently refused bottles due to her throwing up from as she's a chubby kid and plus 800 calories of milk a night can do that.

I wish we could help the younger one more but at this point as my DH says this is out of our control completely. We can only help here when she's here