No i do not want booty...
Im just irritated and feeling low. I was ready to talk to this woman today get this whole mess put behind us.
Well dh had a problem on his job so he came home late. Thats fine except he did not inform me!
I make a fast dinner, prepping myself to go over there, trying to keep myself busy, but im totally watching the clock.
Dh calls me says he is on way home, he guesses we are not going over to the mothers house since it will be late. Im not relived at all.
All day i was thinking what will i say? How will she be? Will we get to a point where we are all ok?
Ughh
Then dh comes in and he wants to get in these looonngggg embraces, of course grope me... ughh im just not into it.
My head was filled with all this crap, i am not in a sexual mode at all.
It does not help that he is like that alot, its never just a hug, its never just a hello kiss...no its a hug/grope me. So now i know he wants sex again tonight. I do not.
I guess we will be fighting because he cant take a nice NO. Or an in your face hint!!!
I get some women will be all let him help you relax, but sex lately has not been relaxing...dh has been wanting to do this long foreplay...i try but im not into it...i tried talking about it but he got all offended. And a lil upset because it turns him on. I get it but when you have a toddler with a runny nose clinging to you, no i do not want to fondle you for 10-30 minutes!! I also to not want you grabbing all over my ladies!! I just want to be held one night without being groped.
Tmi sorry
Our sex needs are just off. I dont need it as much as he wants it...
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Quick snuggle a pillow on the
Quick snuggle a pillow on the smallest piece of furniture you can reasonably sleep on! When he tried to wake you up to go to bed-just look at him like he has 5 heads-say "yup" and then pass back out. That's what I do. Works every time.
Lol
Lol
Well said!
Well said!
^^^^^this
^^^^^this
SO groped me in the office
:jawdrop: :jawdrop: SO groped me in the office this morning - horn dog.... we where alone, I just laughed and said go to site you monster......
and well if I'm not in the mood - I simply tell SO, not in the mood, but here's some lubricants and tissues enjoy...
he use to get mad, but hell I do not care, why are you with me to use me as a sex doll or because you liked my personality....
I played a nasty mind game - I will know when SO is in the mood and when not, well when I knew he's not in the mood I would do the groping, he will tell me not in the mood, I'm just playing that back to him... and believe me if you start paying attention you will notice DH is more out of the mood then what you think .....
I also discovered that not all groping leads to sex, they grope and let it go, why I have no idea, glad they are not male dogs, cause then they might have peed against your leg marking their territory
Fondle him for 10 mins and
Fondle him for 10 mins and when he is good and into it.. Grab him by the balls and let him have it! I bet he will listen to every word!
I love my DH but if he wants
I love my DH but if he wants some, he will turn EVERYTHING into a sexual innuendo. I mean everything...a freaking car commercial, doing dishes, talking about work. On and on and on he will go all afternoon long until I blow my top and yell "I GET IT, YOU WANT SEX. HOW CAN I FORGET AS YOU'VE BEEN ON ABOUT IT FOR 4 F*CKING HOURS NOW!! SHUT UP!!"
Most annoying thing ever. Men.
Yes, mine does this,too. I
Yes, mine does this,too.
I actually do not mind dirty jokes, but i do not join in on days i do not want sex.
I don't mind a few....but
I don't mind a few....but several hours later and I just want to monkey nut punch him lol