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Ladystark's picture

Ss13 1st day of school, and guess what it was rough and he got lost a bunch!

Haha- noones fault but his own! Cant even feel sad for him, nope.

Early blog: backwards talk if you need.

Dh told me he aaked ss to text him that he got on bus- he did not. Then he apparently had to find out his bus number later because he forgot it- then he missed bus stop and had a longer walk home in rain!!

Haha

i just want to yell YOU HAVE A CELLPHONE FOR A REASON DUMBASS!!

I swear this is all attention crap.

Dh feeds ahh buddy, oh no...blah blah.

HE IS GOING TO BE 14 NEXT MONTH, everything that happened is HIS OWN FAULT!!

1. If he texted his dad in the am- he could have texted the bus number, he could also have went to school website and found busstops- which i showed him- but thats really hard.

2. If he went to open house for 6th graders, he may have gotten lost once instead of 8 times!!

3. Cellphone he could have called someone told us where he was at, and we would have went and picked him up!

He knows this...dh drops everything for his dumbass.

Then after ss came home and complained, dh had him wash his feet, ugh soaked teenager shoes wet socks, gag, after he washed his feet he changed clothes- then played video games till 720pm, ate, they were getting ready to go get their hair cut(which is is last minute for a reason)

Before they leave ss comes to me asks me can you wash this, i say yeah put it in dirty laundry ill get to it tomorrow or friday. He has baseball thursday, so i can wash those clothes too.

Him uhh can you wash it so i can wear it tomorrow?
Me- dont you have another one?

Him- yeah but i CAN'T find them.

Lord he is so lucky dh got in the middle because i was about to go crazy on his lying butt!!!

Dh grabs the hoodie, our dirty clothes, mumbles something, and welp i guess ss will have his hoodie tomorrow!! (Im sure he mumbled whats the big deal, thats his goto- when i do not bow to ss, and do whatever at that moment, or he feels im giving ss a hard time)

This shit does not help this kid learn anything.

This kid played video games from 4 to 720pm...but im supposed to jump up- ya buddy no problem, ill wash it for you!

I know he has 5 other hoodies- 5!! We just moved they are all piled on his toy trunk- i placed them ALL ON HIS BED after they left...

No need to lie, and ss could wait till tomorrow.

Im sure this will be brought up later...

Fights are coming...

** after they got back dh has been giving me cold shoulder, i tried to break ice while we were searching through movies. Did not work and baby girl came in asking me for a drink, i joked oh walk past daddy i see- him tell mommy I DO everything around here, she can do that!

Soooooo....not looking great- effing butthole- sorry i will not be babying your teenager tonight!! Husband is enough!!

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Ladystark's picture

The haicut thing is he has been "hidingout" at grandmas house before school started.

So he was at grandmas for 2 weeks- did not say he wanted a haircut to anyone- comes home friday- drops harcut requests.

The go to dhs half sister for haircuts, laborday weekend haha nope

Ladystark's picture

Grandma could have taken him if he opened his mouth!!

Oh and this wouldnot bother me, but he says things like- well someone forgot my haircut- or can i have a snack and a hair cut? Or he plays dumb- so uhh do you know when my haircut is??

I just want to scream! But then im crazy stepmom... like i know its years of dh letting him be like that- but shut the eff up- WE TOLD YOU WE WILL TELL YOU WHEN WE SCHEDULE IT-AHHHH--

Acratopotes's picture

keep calm, keep calm..... I would've asked SS what happened to the 5 hoodies on your bed buddy, should I help you find them again..... holler down to DH - Hon can you please come here we have to help SS finding his clean hoodies }:)

meaning DH you help I will stand and supervise in the door...

Simply ignore it all, laugh it away when DH talks to you about it, smile and say he's 14 surely he can remember certain things and walk away...

Ladystark's picture

I really did not have much emotion for ss, as he told his story, i also did not say much. Which is really really hard!!

I dont think i said anything wrong for hoodie situation- if he only had 1 or 2 hoodies/or if the others were still packed away, yes i would have washed it, but thats not the case.
Dh can be upset with me, but i do not feel i was mean about it.

I think he is just really feeling my distance with situations I WOULD HAVE been in the middle of, and thought i was helping!!

Ive been really good about not stepping in, or saying something that has ME take over the situation!

But i still have thoughts on it!! Im still witnessing the train wreck! Eventually i wont even need to vent about it- i hate that this stuff still ruffles my feathers!!

Ladystark's picture

If i told my mother i could not find my hoodies, jeez, i dont even know what she would have done!

Take the not there hoodies and hand them to my sisters- throw them away- maybe her go in my room tear it apart, then i get to clean it up.

But at 9/10 we helped with laundry- so if i really needed that hoodie i would have washed it myself- lol. To bad i do not trust ss near the washer and dryer yet!!

beebeel's picture

A 14 year old show know how to do his own laundry for this exact reason. Your DH is creating a helpless dolt.