I came across this site today looking for help with my evil thoughts about my Husband's adult Daughters...and I no longer feel alone. But I consider my problems with them, my Husband's fault for not standing up for me and himself. Believe me I have tried over the last 15 years but things are only getting worse with the oldest. I can't stand to be around her anymore. The mere sound of her voice sends me into a dark place. I told my Sister yesterday I think I need counseling to get thru this mess.