So I met the man of my dreams.  Except he has the son of my nightmares. A little about the past to help. I was married 20 years.  I am only 40 now. My three children are no angels but the oldest my son is 19 with his own home.  My middle daughter is 18 in april, works two jobs and is heading away to school in August.  My third, daughter, is 15 a d has recently moved in with her dad because of my BF ( live in) youngest son (16).