Hello all moms and dads, 

First and foremost I would like to thank you all for having this amazing support group. 

Okay quick back story .... 

Engaged to my finance  who has 2 boys from a previous marriage, SS 9 and SS 6. 

I have 4 from my previous marriage, 13, 12, 9, and 7. 

I have had major issues with my SS 9 and SS6, their BM babies them to high heaven. She still dresses them, feeds them yes spoon feeds, and makes their lunches. 

I’m expected to do the same when they are here. I said hell to the NO!