I just don't know what to do. I have an 11 year old step son that absolutely hates me and makes it clear everyday. He is rude, disrespectful, obnoxious, and he is the same way at school. He is also this way to my husband and my 2 children from a previous marriage. I fear he will be the demise of my marriage. My husband has full custody of him and his mother lives in Arkansas and sees him once a year if even that, so I never get a break from this. Does anyone have any advise for me. PLEASE???