:? I am a smom of three sd. I am the person who is raising them by myself. Bm lives in Co and BD lives in Texas. All girls have lived with me for the last 7+ years, bd just moved. The 2sds that live with me seemingly do not have any respect for me after almost 8 years of raising them. There bm has not given them birthday presents or anything in that matter for at leaste the last 4 years (has not called them since they came home from summer break 20 days ago). SD2 went to go live with bm and now wants me to give her money for school and other things in her life.