I have been with my Fiancee for 3 years. We are getting married in 11 months (if we make it). I have never been married and I have no kids. He has 2 kids and an ex wife who is a crazy b*%$h. The hoops that she made us jump through because of all the accusation that she made in court. I don't do drugs, we do occasionally have a couple of drinks and I am mentally sound. I was not allowed to be around their children for the first 9 months of our relationship. Because of the accusations she made in the courts. But her boyfriend who lived with her was allowed.