Disturbing development
We've had our ups and downs. One good thing is DP's ex is finally leaving us alone thanks to DP finally getting a lawyer involved. DP gave his lawyer a 20 something page document with dated records of his ex's bullsh*t, screenshots of her harrassing and threatening him, an explanation that the reason I trespassed her was for breaking and entering (and theft), and he finished the document by saying he just wants them to be civil towards each other and for her to leave him alone. His lawyer forwarded it to her lawyer who showed it to her. Her response was DP is lying and/or exaggerating. But she seems have gotten the message and is finally leaving us alone.
SD7 is as horrible as ever. Everyone except DP avoids her as much as possible. Her obsession with her dad has reached a disturbing level. In the past she's tried to act like his girlfriend including trying to french kiss him and grope his butt. Lately she's insisted on sleeping with one of his stinky workshirts. Then I caught her dramatically sniffing his clean clothes with a look of pure euphoria on her face. But the disturbing part was when I caught her sniffing one of his stinky workshirts while masturbating. I haven't told anyone in RL about that.
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You need to inform DP,
You need to inform DP, because this girl needs serious help.
I agree with all the above,
I agree with all the above, she needs some therapy, and I'd call CPS too.
What does DP mean?
Dear/Darling Partner.
Dear/Darling Partner.
This kid needs therapy. It's
This kid needs therapy. It's disturbing to think what could trigger this behavior. It's also disturbing to think of what could happen legally as far as child abuse allegations. I also wouldn't be able to put up with it and it would make me nauseated all the time.
I don't think she's been
I don't think she's been molested. She's always rubbed down there as a form of self soothing. When I met her when she was 5 she'd usually be sucking her fingers on one hand and rubbing away with the other, watching tv, sitting in the car, in the bath, listening to a story, going to sleep. I told her that's it's something she should only do in private and she's listened. I only saw her this time because I went to put something away in her room after bedtime.
I don't think she's been molested but she's always been allowed to watch whatever she wants and her viewing content has never been monitored so I'm sure she's seen inappropriate things.
I do think she's a disturbed little girl who has enough issues to fill a warehouse.
You don't think she's been
You don't think she's been molested? You have no idea what happens on bm's time. Especially if she's finding her sitters on Facebook - does she even vet them? You have no way knowing.
Ya I would say this is 100%
Ya I would say this is 100% not normal 5 year old behaviour, not any 5 year old I know anyways.
And why are you with these
And why are you with these people? Disney dads and mini wives are a cliche around here. Love yourself more. And cut him off from sex. When acting the blind fool over his mini wife, don't reward him. It's the one thing she cannot give him. He can't have his cake and eat it too. That means if he has another woman in his life that demands his attention, take a huge step back from him.
This is too much. If you are
This is too much. If you are serious about this, you are just waiting on CPS showing up at your door at anytime. Normal 7 yr olds don't do this. It is NOT normal. Leave. You aren't married. It is time.
Yeah, i think OP isn't
Yeah, i think OP isn't grasping the fk'd up-ness of this situation. A 7-year-old masturbating while sniffing her daddy's sweaty work shirt?! I don't think i would be able to eat in that house, let alone be intimate with this guy in it! I would need therapy to get over seeing that, and i damn sure wouldn't continue to live with it! Jesus. This kid will never live a normal life if she keeps this up. She needs therapy yesterday. Imagine her going to a sleepover with friends and engaging in this stuff?! The authorities will be visiting this house in the future, and they will all have some explaining to do.
So what is appealing about
So what is appealing about this man? So far nothing in your post makes this man sound like a catch.
If I am correct, you have 2
If I am correct, you have 2 bio daughters and 1 bio son.
I believe it is time for you to give full custody to their bio dad if you plan on staying with your boyfriend.
They should not be part of this epic mess. YOUR duty as a custodial parent, assuming you have full custody, is to protect your kids.
You wrote: " In the past she's tried to act like his girlfriend including trying to french kiss him and grope his butt"
Do you believe your decision to stay in boyfriends home, with boyfriends daughter, is a healthy and safe environment for your bio kids?
Blunt but true.
Blunt but true.
If the OP has bio kids, they need to be removed from this hot mess. It isn't safe or healthy for them.
This. You need to protect
This. You need to protect your son from this crazy little girl. There's no telling what accusations she could be led to make against him. If not now, someday. She could ruin him.
I told him about it and as
I told him about it and as evil3 predicted he shat down my throat. Me and my kids have moved in with my mum while I find a new place. I gave CPS a detailed report of everything and they're investigating.