and wants us to have day to day care of them with her seeing them every second weekend. It has been the opposite (us having them every second weekend) up to now with her having all the say so in visitation etc. So, it will be quite good although a bit of a challange to begin with. She abandoned her two older children (not DH's) to her mother for a bit years ago and they are angry at her about that now. I can see history repeating itself. People like that shouldn't have kids!!