So...I found this website today out of desperation. I'm sick of dealing with the manipulative BM, who has some real issues that we just got married (even though we have been together for 7 years) and is messing and manipulating her poor children all the time. I'm glad I found a place t vent, and I really had a moment today when after hearing what she tells my SS9 about me, I thought I really should disengage, than my hubby ran out to go get pizza, and my SS just cuddled up next to me and said "I Love You". I have been around in his life since he was 2 years old.