I CANNOT STAND DH RIGHT NOW (SUPER VENT)
I am so upset right now I could just VOMIT. We were PLANNING on getting a hot tub (of course, adult SDs will be in it, most likely when I'm not here); I went down, put money on it.
DH decides he wants to put the whole thing on his credit card.
Fine. We get to the store (the gentleman who sold it to me was there waiting for us), well DH goes on a RANT about how he wants them to install some part (something with the cover) that they don't normally do...he starts YELLING at this salesman, who looks over at me, like WTF? Then he storms out saying if they won't install it, he's not buying it. I was so embarassed, I just started crying. He gave me NO indication
that he was gonna just go off like that.
THEN, when he saw me crying, he started "Oh, now you're not gonna talk to me all night. That's it, we're not getting it,"
and left. Went into the car." WTF???
I got a GOOD IDEA tonight of where adult SDs get their venom.
My God, just ASK the guy, you don't just start screaming in some
guy's FACE like a maniac. Ironically, the man called his boss, and they said, yeah, they'll install it, no problem. All he had to do was ASK.
I'm too ashamed to even go BACK to that place. They gave us a GREAT price, they're installing it for FREE, and he's still
bitching.
If my daughter weren't going to be here tonight, I'd just leave this pr*ck. The salesman was just rolling his eyes, and he asked me if I'd be OK. He probably thinks this guy's gonna beat the crap out of me. (He's too embarassed FOR HIMSELF right now to ever do anything like that.)
ONE THING I wanted...no WE WANTED, and he has to screw that up, too. I just hate him. I really feel that these "people" are gonna drive me CRAZY.
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Thanx, Cru..
His skanky ass wanted it as much as I do....let HIM go face these nice, calm "Jimmy Buffet" like guys with his tail between his legs.
Sometimes I wish I were single...ANIMAL HOUSE is on (where I live);
I'm just gonna go LAFF!!
LMFAF!
Naah....then I'd end up going to jail...let HIM go face all his FRIGGING "friends" that he was BRAGGING to "we're getting a hot tub"
and let HIM explain that he made a total ASS out of himself. He keeps telling me "I'm sorry", but TORTURE of the SILENT KIND works well...I'm not talking to the PRICK!! I have to WORK tomorrow so I won't be here all DAY...I'm sure my cell will be LOADED with "I LOVE YOU; I'M so sorry" calls"...I'll be busy. SCREW HIM AND THE HORSE HE RODE IN ON!!!
GOD, I LOVE THIS SITE!! CRU, you TOTALLY RULE!!
Good God...
Why would he do that? Hang in there KK... is he close to getting his period or something? LOL
SL, thanx as always..
The problem I have with ALL of this is that this not the FIRST time people have looked in my direction and basically said "God, is this guy an ASS!" THEN compound it with his WACKO daughters, and I just feel I want OUT.
Hey, ANIMAL HOUSE IS ON, life is good...he can KISS MY BUTT, too...he wanted that tub as much as I do, but I"m too embarassed to EVER set foot in that place again. Let him put his scroungy tail between his legs and go back.
TOGA! TOGA!! Hee hee! OTIS MY MAN!! Triple hee!
Maybe you should...
Put some bruises around your eyes...go back in...and plead for a better price! Then, get something else installed with the cover...a combination lock! And only have the combo! HAHA. I'm a bitch!
Oh, let's be BITCHES...
We TRIED THE NICE THING; SCREW 'EM ALL. As I wrote to Cruella, he's giving me "I'm sorrys" all over the place....SILENT TREATMENT time;
he made a total ass out of himself.
I don't know how much we SHARED about ourselves, but I teach high school and college in this area; MANY people know me...can you imagine the talk around town "wow, this woman came in to buy a hot tub, her husband is a total ASS"...did he dig his grave, socially, yet again??
OF COURSE he's sorry....oh, he will pay DEARLY; hope he has a GREAT
FRIGGIN FOURTH OF JULY! I think even the adult SDs have blown him off. I'll be BUSY!!
You are the coolest EVER, SL!! I might come up with a song for this!
You bring out the FUN CRAZIES IN ME!!!
I love your songs...
And I could tell you were a teacher of some sort...don't know why, but there is something about your posts. My DH also teaches high school. You are all a breed of your own -- in a good way! lol
After the fight
Even after things calm down and the fight is over, even after all the apologies are tendered and accepted, if you still get the thing, you'll never be able to enjoy it the same way you would have before. There'll always be a little blemish on it after this experience and that's what sucks.
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ANNE 8102 ♥ GEORGIA
Let Him Deal with it
I would be like whatever....he made an ass out of himself and going forward if he really wants the hot tub that bad...let him deal with the purchase and buy it with his money...more often than not they come crying back apologizing for their behavior and then eventually you do end up taking care of it.
Weird
Usually when my BF goes off like that for no reason, it's because something is bugging him that he's holding in. Is there anything at all that could have caused this that's not related to the whole hot tub thing?
Sorry he embarrassed you so badly in front of those people. I know how you feel. One time I was out looking at an apartment (before BF and I lived together) and the old couple that owned the place and I got to talking. They were friends of my parents', and my parents have moved out of town, so we were catching up. I was there for quite a while. He called me and asked where I was, I told him I was still there. Well, for some reason he got all pissy and hung up on me. I do NOT take well to being hung up on. I was so upset I started crying. I apologized to the people and left. When I got to where he was, I let him have it! You embarassed the hell out of me in front of those nice people! He was like, they never needed to know that I hung up on you. You could have played it off. I told him NO, I shouldn't HAVE to play it off you PRICK! Don't fricking hang up on me! You KNOW how much I hate it! URGHHGH!
*~So sayeth Nymh~*
Is it possible that your
Is it possible that your husband has some undiagnosed mental issue? I'm not trying to be mean or cheeky, but that type of behavior is so out of the realm of normal that a mental/emotional issue was my first thought.