I just joined this website, and i have to say i'm completely relieved!!! I never knew there were so many people that felt the same way i do! I have a step daughter that is now 11. I can honestly say that i HATE her. After being with my husband for over 5 years (married 2 and a half) and we still dont have a relationship, I just dont want to try anymore. Worse part is, my husband has full custody so shes ALWAYS with us.