My SS is so mean to my son!
I have two boys with my husband (7&2yrs old) he also have two children
from his previous marriage. My SD is lovely she will do anything for anyone she helps around the house pick up after
herself even help my 2yr get dressed play with him ect. My SS is will be 12 in a could of months but the way he treat my 7yr old makes my skin crawl. My husband is at work during the day so I’m his primary caregiver in the am. My SS call my son
him ugly and fat all the time. Every minute of the day he
try to get him in trouble. He purposely downloaded a game on
my son ipad that my husband specifically told them not to play and told his dad my son did it when I watched him do it!
he tries to fight him everyday my son wet the bed sometimes and he will be the first one to tell if that happens he’s already embarrassed about the whole thing it’s like it’s his goal to make my child feel a certain type of way. So I’ve tried to talk to him I spent one on one time with him I’ve told my husband to spend time with him and nothing is working !!! My son is shy and have low self esteem and he feeds on that. My son said he don’t want him around anymore I treat them all the same but I’m sooo freaking tired of this little boy!! On top of that my children have I pads he said I hate I pads their dumb just like my son I said that’s not nice and apologize I also ask would you like for me to buy you an I pad he said no I’m over it.
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What does your H do when SS
What does your H do when SS does this to your son? Does he reprimand him, give him consequences? If not I'd tell him that you watching him is not an option and that he has to be home to care for him. If your H is not taking measures to teach SS that this behavior is disrespectful you will in for more of the same in the future and even worse.
You’re absolutely right all
You’re absolutely right all he do is tell him to stop he may stop for an hour or so but continues yes I have to tell him today!
This is usually because the
This is usually because the step is jealous. Call him out on it. “SS why are you trying to get BS in trouble; why are you acting jealous of BS” At this age they can’t always identify what they’re feeling or why they’re doing what they’re doing other than it makes them feel better. Identify the feeling for it. Most people don’t like being called jealous and he might behave different once you call him out on it.
Also complimenting kids on their good behavior even if it’s just sitting in the car quietly will be noticed and mimicked by the rest of the children.
If the older one is mean
Seperate them. I think you may be regarding the older one as a babysitter, try to cut that down. Dont know why some kids get Ipads and other dont, DAD should have been fairer, of course jealousy.