Dear all. Ss 21yo I have again found drugs in his room. After very patchy employment history he has started a new job. Within days has once more gone sick. Something he has lied to cover up. His mother said I should give benefit of doubt so I did, but then found his discarded bus ticket proving he wasn't at work I haven't approached him but have suggested we guide him to rehab or something,this doesn't seem too well recieved, whatshould I do?