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kaikicking's picture

My dh says sms have to learn to stay out of it and let them handle bm. I am going to stay out of it alright. I wanted to say the problem at least in your case is that you don't.

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not2sureimsaneanymore's picture

^^^

Dingdingding. I let DH handle it usually because he stands up for me anyway, but if he didn't I would not take it sitting down.

princessmofo's picture

I agree! I am done waiting on dh to come to my rescue. I'm my Own hero and I will put the smackdown on anybody that tries to rattle me. Period.

SickupAndFed's picture

Seems to be a universal problem with dhs, or we wouldn't have to come here and vent.

hereiam's picture

Yeah, because they handle the BM so well. I'm with oldone, mess with me and mine, and I will mess with you.

StickAFork's picture

I agree with him.

Let HIM handle HIS ex.
You can do the same, provided you have one.

I'll never understand why women think we need to control everything...especially when it does nothing but cause problems for us. You try telling DH what to do, he resists, you get angry, he gets resentful, you get resentful...to me, that's much worse than him handling things his way...even if it's not the way I would handle it.

Just my opinion.

oldone's picture

DH's second wife was an uber controlling utter bitch. BM is one of those whiney "poor me" victim types (while screwing half the town).

Which I guess was a good thing for me as 2nd wife (no kids with her) called the shots and cut BM off at the knees.

My one and only encounter with BM she tried being awful to me but I silenced her with one ultra cutting remark (it helps to know her deepest darkest secrets).