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YSS25 Is Coming Visit.

Justme54's picture

DH usually has to beg SS25 to come for a visit. Yet now, he wants to come to visit for 2 nights and bring his new girlfriend.

Little History...SS25 still lives with his mother. Girlfriend is 26 and still lives with her parents.

I just have some negative thoughts...Dad and Justme54 are cool. This would be a cheap date with free food. We have a room to do the wild thing. This the first girlfriend SS25 has dated as far as I know.

SS25 has given DH 2 gifts in the 5 years we have been together.

What would you think?

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Justme54's picture

LOL! You make me laugh. My ex and I were so poor when we were first married and college. We ate hamburger helper a lot! For years later, I could not look at a box of hamburger helper without feeling like I was going to throw up.

Justme54's picture

SS25 eats like a horse. He eats from the time he hits the door until he leaves. Please...SS25 help with anything. I bet he does not even mow his mother's yard.

Justme54's picture

He wants to come in Friday night. They live 2 hours away. Why not come Saturday morning? This would give me more time to get the house in ordered. DH is out of state at work 60%. I am the yardman most of the time. I do the landscaping 100% I am the DIY girl. I do not have time to be the best of the best homemaker hostess. I have been sick with my stomach the last 2 days. I stress out with company.

Tuff Noogies's picture

i think he wants money.......

i would NOT clean up for him, i'd live the same way you always do, and do whatever your friday night and weekend routines are.

Jilly's picture

What if the children are getting married?

My stepdaughter is coming but is too good to stay in our home or have dinner with us. These children always want something. Do not be surprised if they want money or to move in with you.

Justme54's picture

They both have jobs and live 2 hours away. DH told him...DO NOT GET HER PREGNANT! Why would DH say that...BECASUE he know his son is not too bright.

We live in my house which way too small. I use the spare room as storage when I am moving things around working on a DIY project. I have items in there from the master bathroom because I am in the middle of painting. Now I got to move things out to set it up for guests. I HATE stopping in the middle of a project.

Just J's picture

No way! Tell your DH to clean out the guest room for them or else they can stay at a motel. Why are you the one doing all the preparation for HIS KID to arrive? I wouldn't do a thing. Leave all your crap in the guest room and tell your SS and his GF that since dear old daddy didn't feel the need to clean it for them, they'll need to stay elsewhere.