We FINALLY got the notes from the electrophysiologist that SS14 was seeing. This one said he just was going through puberty and there were no real issues, just minor Tachycardia. No restrictions, no concern. Annual follow up. 

However!!! There was a fun note in there!! In June 2017 BM stated that SS lived with Mom, Stepdad, Sister and 1/2 brother. 

In April 2018 BM stated under oath in court that she lived alone with SS in a different town. 

BM is not married (she wouldn't get her food stamps or disability if she was). Sister is really 1/2 sister.  We know that she has been living with her boyfriend and his 2 kids and his 1/2 sister in the town they are now since 2015. She just was good at covering her tracks. She didn't think we would ever get a hold of this information since she refused to give us the doctors names or tell us about appointments. 

Now, I don't know if it makes a difference but I asked our lawyer to pull the transcripts from the last hearing. This is the 3rd place she has named her boyfriend as "step father" or "dad" in records from school and medical going back to early 2017. Why on earth would DH have to pay alimony to someone who, even if not legally, considers herself married and living with another man?!?!?!  We aren't worried about the overage, which-- not including this stuff is about 8K, we just want it cut off and her to not be able to be awarded more for "extenuating circumstances" (which can happen). 

All of the accustaions of child endangerment- which have never been address to DH or I or CPS, we see as a front to get more money. I just hope we can show the court over and over how she is such a liar about everything.